If You Are A Guy, Do Not Do These To Impress A Lady!

I am writing this based on a personal experience, so if you are in this category I hope you find this helpful. Trust me, we guys have been made to think that we must always do everything to impress our babes..I am not disputing this fact neither am I against a guy loving her babe, what I have problem with is when a guy is doing these things in order to impress a lady. You wanna hear the truth? Well, most times these actions come back to haunt us while, we get to regret at the end. 

1. Consuming too much alcohol: Why would you do that! Like seriously? (When I say personal experience, this alcohol is out of it..b4 una castigate me..kk) most guys are guilty of this especially when trying to ask a lady out or should I say when taking her to bed. My dear readers, you are soooo wrong, aside from the fact that it will damage your health, it won't last forever! The truth is, you most times end up misbehaving and it's not a guarantee that you’ll succeed in wooing or performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will know that you took something and that you lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself....

2. Spending above your means: whether its buying things you don’t really need in order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the lady with things you normally should not be buying. Its wrong. I see a lot of guys do this and I keep wondering to what purpose? The worst is many of them come back to their senses when its already too late! Ope, I trust myself, if I don't have, I don't have.

3. Lying: LOL, you must be smiling now. I’m not talking about the small lies guys normally tell, I’m talking about bragging to a lady about what you’re not. Why tell a lady your father is "Dangote’s brother", or you’re a "Chelsea player", or you work in "Chevron" wake up! this is not Toyin Aimakhu's ALAKADA MOVIE.... who does that? especially in this JET AGE...like duh! This will make her have high expectation from you which you would be trying to live up to. 

4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy that is also coming after her. Its wrong for a guy to maltreat his fellow in any way because of a lady. Whether its badmouthing, fighting or quarelling with him, its not worth it. 

5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe you’re a committed Christian or Muslim, you start backsliding or become uncommitted because she told you to. You start to abandon your loved ones and family, your studies begin to nosedive and even your job sef, you become unserious. Its a very silly thing to do because when the chips are down, those are the only things that will get you going- God, your family and loved ones and your job which will put food on your table. 

6. Pretending to be who you’re not: there’s no need to pretend to be a bad guy if you’re not. There are still ladies who values good guys.You don’t need to force yourself to seem confident if you’re a shy guy. People will know you’re just acting it up. 

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