Séx Matters: Kiss, Kissing and Kisses

Healthy séx may need a lot of efforts but there are a few things that can be very effortless as well as good for couples’ séx life. Kissing is one of those wonderful things that have several benefits. It releases endorphins which make one feel happy. A kiss can be the most effective way to express your love for your spouse.

When you kiss someone, you make them feel loved; you tell them how much you love them. Kissing can be a handy pain killer; it releases adrenaline which can reduce the feeling of pain. A kiss can help take away one’s mind from pain and experience something good. A kiss at the right time can boost relationship or even take it to a new level. Never miss a chance to let your spouse feel special and know how much you love him/her with a kiss.

When we kiss, both men and women produce the hormone oxytocin that causes us to bond. A kiss a day boosts immunity against viruses. Kissing works wonders...

It helps get couples closer. A good kiss is a stress buster. Cortisol, the stress hormone, is not only dangerous to our immune system, it also decreases endocrine hormone in the system and brain but sex therapists have observed that kissing can lower the cortisol levels. So kissing your spouse often helps you fight stress. Nothing can be a better option for foreplay and intimate moments than kissing. Kissing ensures that both partners are on the right track to some wonderful private moments. Lip locking, another word for kissing, is one gesture couples overlook and pay less attention to simply because they do not know its benefits. Did you know that we have different kinds of kiss?

Have you heard about butterfly kind of kiss? This is not only delicate but cute. To do this, make sure your faces are less than a breath away. Then open and close your eyelids against your spouse’s cheek and you would feel your heart fluttering with joy. Then we have the cheek kiss which is one of the best. This was actually the type of kiss you shared with your spouse while you were still dating or in courtship. With this type of kiss, your heart skips when your crush comes over and bends to plant a kiss on your cheek.

You would recall that as you kissed your girlfriend then, you were at the same time putting your hands around her shoulder [ a sign of possession] and softly touching her cheeks with your lips over and over again.

Another type of kiss which couples enjoyed while still dating but have now almost neglected is the Eskimo type of kiss. The kiss is an expression of subtle intimacy. It involves two people standing so close to each other. Nothing works more romantically than altering the tune of breathing by rubbing each other’s nose. This is most recommended for couples, but unfortunately bad breath most times makes this very difficult.

The eye kiss is another type that many couples are missing especially when they are not used to body contact or open display of affection. With this type of kiss, such challenge can be easily worked upon. This is not the eyeball kiss that will put you or your spouse at risk of infections, but one that is many times tender and soulful. Hold your spouse’s head with your hands. Slowly move their head in the direction that you want to kiss and when your lips have reached the eyes, plant a kiss. 

I personally think that couples have fewer secrets to hide when they look into each other’s eyeball regularly. If you are a spouse that seldom have time because of busy schedule, then what you need is the eyelid kiss. With eyelid kiss, you will not need to feel guilty anymore. All you need do is just plant one on the eyelid. This is a very intimate kiss that your partner would probably never come to know of unless they are awake.

How about the earlobe kiss? All you need do is gently plant kisses on the cheeks of your partner and move towards his or her earlobe, then gently sip and suck on the earlobes.

The finger kiss, you may already have done this with your partner without really knowing that it is a type of kiss in itself. The finger kiss involves gently rubbing the partner’s fingers and sucking on them. This can be surprisingly seductive and deeply passionate. This is actually recommended for couples of all ages. A good kiss is that subtle expression of intimacy. 

A good kiss dropped on the cheeks of one’s spouse is like refreshing morning dew but it takes two to experience a good kiss.

BY FUNMI AKINGBADE

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