5 extremely easy things to do if you want to keep a man

Some relationships crash not because the feelings are no longer existent but because of too much attention paid by people on their partners.As much as ladies love their men to be fully committed in their relationships, there should be a line drawn between smothering and caring.

Freaking your man out over little things or monitoring his every move may could put a strain on your relationship which may crash in the long run.

1. Don’t be clingy: I used to be a extremely clingy girlfriend, but I’ve learned it gets you no where. Don’t always cling to him in person, either. Get out of his bubble. Do not constantly call him or text him. If he doesn’t text you back right away, or if he doesn’t answer your call, don’t immediately freak out and blow up his phone. Which brings me to my next point… 2. Give him space: Let him come to you sometimes. With my fiancé, I have an 80/20 rule. I let him contact me first 80% of the time, and I contact him first 20% of the time. I don’t text him or call him everyday. A man needs his space. Most men in relationships often complain that their significant others are suffocating them. Don’t be that girl.

3.Don’t let yourself go: So often, I see the same thing. Once the girl gets the guy, they start to “slack off” in the beauty department. Around their guy they wear sweats instead of the sexy dresses, they stop the make-up, and they stop the workout regimen. Note: I’m not saying that you have to do all of those things to be beautiful or sexy. All I’m saying is, if you want to keep him, do what you did at the beginning of your relationship. A guy wants his woman to be the same sexy little number that he got at the beginning. 

 4.Be a kinky kitten: I’m not saying that you have to do anything that you’re uncomfortable with in the bedroom. All I’m saying is, give him that blow job. All. The. Time. Wake him up with a blow job, or even sex. Wear that sexy lingerie instead of that old t-shirt to bed. Experiment in the bedroom. Try new sex positions, places, etc. Ask him his fantasies, and make sure you fulfill them. Splurge in some new sex toys and that new teddy. 

 5.Compliment him: Make him feel sexy. Just because you’re together, it doesn’t mean that you can stop flirting with him. Flirt like you did before you were together. Remind him how muscular he is, and how hot he is. Often, men feel unappreciated in a relationship, and women feel unloved. Tell him about how much you appreciate him often and how strong and manly he is, and he won’t be going anywhere anytime soon.