1. Negativity
No one likes negative energy. It ruins the mood, causes tension and creates chaos and imbalance under any circumstances. So, when a guy senses even the slightest bit of a bad vibe coming from your direction, he's sure to make a detour and seek more friendly and inviting females to spend his time with.
Negativity is even worse when it's completely unnecessary. Girls tend to get very defensive around other girls who they feel might be direct competition. And it's completely normal to feel threatened, in a sense, by someone you feel is prettier or more attractive than you. However, these are feelings that you should keep to yourself, because the fastest way to ruin your chances with a guy is to give him a reason to believe that you talk behind other people's back or that you harbor any kind of envy, jealousy or animosity for people without getting to know them first.
2. Being clingy.
Guys don't like girls who get attached too quickly, and sometimes this is very hard for some girls to understand. You might think that being clingy shows that you are loyal and committed, but then you're also assuming that he's just as interested as you are when it comes down to actually pursuing a relationship. If you're not sure about how a guy feels about you, your best bet is to relax and take things slowly. You don't always have to know what he's doing or who he's with. You shouldn't always feel the need to question why he hasn't answered your calls or your texts. Instead, focus on being yourself and doing things that will make him wonder about you and look forward to speaking with you again.
Another reason why guys don't like when girls are clingy is because it shows a greater level of dependency than what most guys are attracted to. Sure, he wants a girl that isn't going to get up and go partying every weekend, but at the same time, he doesn't want a girl that makes it too easy to the point where it's not even fun to chase you. When you make yourself too vulnerable, it makes him "wonder" whether or not you're worth it before the relationship even has an opportunity to develop into something greater.
3. Too much makeup.
Makeup is a major turn-off for most guys. And although guys may tell you that you look better without makeup, truth is: makeup does wonders, and most guys appreciate when it is used correctly. However, wearing too much of it is always noticeable and says a lot more about you than you're trying to portray.
Wearing too much makeup is a clear indication that you're inexperienced, insecure and very uncomfortable with your sexuality. And if you want a guy to find you attractive, these are three characteristics you don't want him to realize by just looking at you. He's not asking you to be perfect, but trying to hide flaws that probably make you more attractive and unique ruins the fun of getting to know you.
4. Expectations
Guys hate when girls expect too much out of a relationship. Even if you don't expect your guy to be perfect, you're still setting yourself up for failure by allowing these expectations to influence how you feel towards him. Not only is this unhealthy for your relationship, but it also forces your guy to try to impress you instead of letting him show you who he really is.
The next time you find yourself expecting anything from your guy, just ask yourself whether or not you would be able to live up to your own expectations. When you put yourself in his shoes, it becomes easier to accept any differences you might have and learn to compromise more often, which always leads to growth and prosperity among couples.
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