Big Mistakes Many Nigerian Ladies of Today Make That Make Them End Up Dating & Marrying The Wrong Men

Most young women nowadays do not care about anything more than how much a guy has in his bank account and they certainly do not care about the source of what is in a guy’s bank account.

Make out time and read through this interesting story of a good and innocent guy who met a 21st century Nigerian lady. Read story below”Probably, life is exceptionally difficult for these women compared to how we are all struggling to meet the needs of the next day. I can clearly understand why life would be harder for some women who have placed themselves into a barrel full of ignorant wants from expensive bags, shoes, clothes, handsets to weaves just to appear classy and trendy.

I’m about to share a bit of my adventure with a girl I wrongly met, says K…Permit me to call that a short-sighted love or LUST…

Few years ago i was introduced to a young pretty lady by a friend who happened to be her mate. This young lady was also looking for a young guy for a possible committed relationship.

I’ve been open to all forms of finding friends and date; from- Facebook, Twiter to Skype, etc, though I was a bit unwary of the outcome anyway, but I think I liked the excitement I was getting from it.She too told me she had tried several means of finding a date- Online Dating, Speed Dating and even Hook ups, which this was one of the few Hook ups opportunities that came her way.

Through the work of my female friend, I received my first text message from Sandra (not her real name). At the time I was introduced to Sandra who was taking up a part time class in College to help her with job security, I had just finished my 1st semester and had started preparation for my IT(industrial training) which was supposed to start the next month.

We had long conversations through countless text messages, BBM chats, and all that, and each day, I made it a point of duty to call her at least once to hear her voice and find out how her day and job hunting was going.

From our conversations, I quickly noticed that Sandra loves good things of life but then again who does not love good things of life as long as the person can afford it..

Sandra had a travel dream and wanted to see the world, which I told her it is possible as long as she works towards it.
But I was wrong; why? Because she wanted someone to finance her tour of the world; of course a man.

There was no way she was ready to pay for this, so before we even met in person, she suggested I take her around on her upcoming birthday, maybe a good resort or a ranch….hmmm

Honestly, she’s so lively and was nice to talk to, and I was pretty much looking forward to meeting her in person as the many photos we exchanged did not give me an insight into her personality. But then, I could see from the photos that she loved her long nails, long weaves and long heels. Probably, she loved it all long and even joked in one of her text messages that, she loves men with long tails (whatever that means), though it was more of a fall in the right spot for me..”don’t get it twisted”. Buy Cheap Android Phones on Konga.com | Lowest Price in Nigeria
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Throughout our conversation, Sandra tried so hard to cunningly find out my financial status by asking me fishy questions. Cleverly, I avoided most as I believe money should not be a pull factor when looking for real love.

Please my fellow guys reading this, whenever you meet a lady and she starts asking you questions like this:

Where do you work? What do your parents do? Where does your dad work?, etc…Please beware!

On several occasions, Sandra asked me to buy her calling cards (recharge cards) to enable her call her family and a few friends, with the excuse that the nearest shop is a little far from her, bla bla bla. It did not matter much to me as several 200 or 400 call cards were not going to break my account. Each time I bought it, I told myself this girl must be interested in getting stuff off men.

Just a day before our meeting following our 2 months of long conversations, she asked; what sort of car do your parents drive, and I hope you have one for yourself too?

Before I answered, she added; If a man does not drive or come from a wealthy home, there is no way I am gonna date him, as I can’t afford to be catching the buses in my long heels after a dinner out.

At this stage, I realised Sandra did not only care about what family background I came from, but then a man with a car is on her list of things she looks for in a relationship…what a NO NO sign.

I told her the truth that I don’t drive a car ma’m, and as for my family, we aint even average to talk of wealthy… And then I asked; what about you? I knew she doesn’t have a car because I’ve spoken to her on multiple occasions when she was on the bus from church or from a friend’s house.

She replied by saying, I don’t have a car yet but my first car will be a Lexus.. You can imagine that.. She killed my zeal to meet her and the next morning, I sent her an sms to cancel our date, citing an appointment as the reason….

Why can’t some women look beyond material things when looking for a partner in life?.. Its so frustrating to imagine sometimes.

Dear ladies reading this, please change your attitudes towards money and material things; you ladies are the sole reason many financially buoyant guys cheat and treat their partners like trash because they believe all women are objects that can be bought with money and discarded when done!

Advice your friends and female relatives to please change so that men can start valuing you ladies the more please. Thanks, please share to enlighten more women!