Monday 14 July 2014

3 Reasons Why He Doesn’t Deserve Your ‘GOODIES’

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When you are in a relationship, the pressure is on to get intimate or as they say, “Go all the way.” You don’t want to do it too early in the dating process because the same social norms that have been around for centuries still exist, which basically says that she’s easy and he’s just a player.  
*Just tell him. The thing is not to wait until you are in a heavy make-out session. That will make him mad and definitely frustrated. Don’t fall for the old line, “If you cared about me, you would do this.” No, if he cared about you, he would ease up on the juvenile pressure and try to understand why you want to wait.  
 • Let your partner know why you want to wait. Maybe you don’t believe in it before marriage or at least a commitment. Maybe you think you two should talk about protection first. Maybe you are not (yet) turned on enough. Whatever reasons you have, make them known.
• Be strong in your resolution. Choose words that are not defensive. Don’t yell stop and push him away. Say, “I really like you, but I’m not ready to take this step yet.” Buy Cheap Android Phones on Konga.com | Lowest Price in Nigeria
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  The bottom line is that you have to communicate before the situation gets out of hand and your partner gets frustrated. If hesays stupid things like, “I guess I’ll get it from someone else,” he is immature and not going to be

  Being intimate is important and actually been shown to be a human need, but it has to be a mutual decision in order for both parties to enjoy it and not regret it.

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