Girl Reveals: The Things Guys I Met On Social Media Did To Me

 

Ladies should really be careful. Not all guys you meet on the social media are genuine, especially now that too many chatting services are springing up here and there. Rough guys are taking advantage, shine you eyes.

Following her nasty experience in the hands of guys, a young lady, Elizabeth John Adie, has given oral evidence about how she was gang-rapéd by a group of men she met through a social networking site, 2GO.  

According to her, the guys picked her in an ash colour vehicle with unknown registration number to Aso B area where they threatened her with knives, searched her handbag and took her two blackberry phones, cash of N8,000 and other foreign currencies, before raping her...

The case was mentioned at the Upper Area Court, Mararaba Gurku, Nasarawa State. One of the accused, 22-year-old Agbo Emmanuel, a school certificate holder has been in police detention since the incident occurred but was brought to court on February 11, charged with criminal conspiracy, intimidation, extortion, causing hurt and rape, all contrary to sections 97, 397, 292, 244, and 283 of the Penal Code Laws of Nigeria.

According to the police First Information Report, the victim reported at the ‘A’ Division Police Station, in the Mararaba area of Nasarawa, close to Abuja state on February 1, 2014, that on the same day at about 13:30hrs at Aso B, one Agbo Emmanuel and three others, Bright Ochigbon, Junior Udewenga and Anita, now at large, conspired and deceived her through the 2GO social network.

Elizabeth said after taking the items from her, the rough guys went ahead to rapé her in turns, adding that she had tried to resist but was cut with a knife by one of them on her right finger. The case continues. Buy Cheap Android Phones on Konga.com | Lowest Price in Nigeria
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I'm Tired Of Keeping My "Thing" Until After Marriage

 

I'm a 25 years old lady. Growing a good relationship has been a daunting challenge for me, it just won't last. Sometimes my fellow ladies take him from me or lack of séx causes our separation even after letting him know from the beginning that I am totally for a no séx before marriage relationship. At first they would accept only to walk out when I have fallen in love. Some of these men have been good to me but séx is the only barrier. Some said I'm too rigid. I have really worked on my character because at some point I thought I was lacking some good morals. My friends always advice me that séx keeps relationship going.

But I want to know, can't one have a healthy relationship without séx? As a vir-gin, if I desire for a man's affection, is it wrong? I really need advice because I'm heart broken now. And I'm beginning to have a rethink on my determination to keep "my thing" until after marriage. Buy Cheap Android Phones on Konga.com | Lowest Price in Nigeria
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Should I Leave My Boyfriend Because My Pastor Asked Me To Leave Him?

I'm in a relationship with a man that I love so much and vice versa. This man does everything and anything you can think of for me. We both make each other happy. Since the day me and this guy started dating I knew what happiness was, he tells me all sorts about how he’s happy that am in his life and that he wants us to spend the rest of our lives together etc.

Basically we have a healthy relationship. Which I thank God. But here is the problem, I'm sure as Nigerians we all or let me say some of us go to all these pastors, like baba and mama Aladura once in a while for prayers and all.

So there's this man he is very good asin it's not about money or anything o cause there are some actually good pastors or whatever U want to call them that are good in prayers and all. I have known this baba Aladura for a very long time since I was small.

So recently a couple of months back I told this man that he should pray for me which he did and told me some stuff part of the things he said to me was that there is a man that I'm seeing that I should stop dating the guy that his not good for me that he saw that this guy would get me pregnant and just leave me?! Like I was so numb when the man was saying all that, I was confused.

3months later me and this guy we still have a healthy relationship. I pray each day that God should touch my boyfriend’s heart, and not make such thing happen about what the pastor said. I just need advice on what to do cause this man is all I have, he is my happiness and all.

Please if you were in my situation what would you do? Should I just keep praying to God and tell the pastor to also join me so such wouldn't happen? God forgive me or is the pastor lying? But why should he lie? Or Should I leave my bf? Obviously that I wouldn't do. SOS! Advice pls

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I Aborted My Stupid Boyfriend's Pregnancy, Now I'm "Barren"

She has made a serious mistake that is hunting her. Now she needs help...

I dated this stupid guy for four years and in that four years, I had five abortions for him. The last abortion was particularly traumatic. We broke up four years ago and within a year he was married to someone else. He has two kids with his wife who is a co-worker he cheated on me with.  

I moved on with my life and fortunately met a great guy in 2012. I married him in early 2013 and a year later I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I went to see a doctor in December last year and after carrying out tests he asked me if I'd ever had an abortion. I initially lied but owned up after I realized how serious it was. The doctor said that I may have destroyed part of my womb but will keep treating me and I should be hopeful.  

I know that my ex-stupid boyfriend and his wife are expecting their third child and this makes me very angry...

I may never be able to have children and that guy who caused it is living a fulfilling life. Short of having him killed, I don't know what else to do. The anger I feel inside is immense and I'm gradually losing my sanity. I wrote an email to my ex and copied his wife explaining what was going on with me, and they both ignored me.  

How do I forgive this man and myself? There's nothing I want more than to be a mum. I'm going out of my mind and I am so bitter. Can anyone help?

Please, how can I help myself?

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Advice to ladies in their twenties

1  Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady… So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife category…
2  Never let the sweet talks of  guys deceive you, most times they just want to go between your legs and run off thereafter.Remove the mentality from your mind that guys will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the fewer toasters you will have.
3  Playing ‘too’ hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE.

4  Never extort things from a guy you don’t love, guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total ‘PAID’ STRANGERS….BE CAREFUL.
5  Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex. A man will also return to his wife who sex starves him for years once he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body.
6  If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him, don’t complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer…
7  Don’t be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate with.
8   A guy always taking you to the SILVERBIRD, FAST FOOD, MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTRE NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn’t care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his ‘SOCIAL MATE’ and nothing else…
9  If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his “executive house help”.
8  If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.
10 Don’t always change the TV station from ETV to CRYSTAL TV, MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out.
11 If the only places he doesn’t frown when you enter are his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren’t welcome (only being used). Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end…? Always with open arms, requesting for something and ready to receive… THE MORE YOU WIDEN YOUR ARMS, THE MORE HE WIDEN YOUR LEGS…A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings female visitors to the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS ALREADY… ADVISE YOURSELF…