Act unbothered, the sidechick is eating your remnant – Pastor Funke Felix-Adejumo

Pastor Funke Felix-Adejumo has advised married women to act unbothered when they see that their husband has a sidechick. According to the pastor, the women should not bother fighting the sidechick because they should see the situation as the sidechick eating their remnant. Pastor Funke Felix-Adejumo:

Tobi Bakre’s mum dragged for saying her husband is allowed to cheat

The mom of former Big Brother Naija contestant ,Tobi Bakre is being dragged on Twitter after he shared a video of his mum dishing out marriage advice . To celebrate his parents 29th wedding anniversary,Tobi had them dish out the secret of their lasting union

Be Careful! Check Out 5 Unhealthy Compromises You Should Not Make For A Relationship

There are certain compromises you should not make for any relationship you're in. These are some of those compromises. It is perfectly OK to sometimes reconsider some old, selfish ways and show a willingness to meet your partner halfway. It's a cool way to show that you are ready to pitch in with effort on your part, in order for the relationship to work, for things to sync perfectly.

 But there's a limit to how far you can possibly take this. There are somethings you cannot overlook in a relationship, some grounds you should not shift, and some compromises you really don't have to make. If you have ever wondered what the line to never cross is, we help with some tips below:

Check Out 7 Phone Cheating Signs To Look Out For In Your Partner

If you have always suspected that your partner is using their phone to cheat on you with someone else, these are some signs to look out for. When you feel you are the victim of unfaithfulness or something is amiss in your relationship, it is time to pay more attention to the phone behaviours of your partner.

 Though, signs of cheating are different in every relationship but there are common threads you can look for. These are seven secretive phone use behaviours of cheaters suggesting something is wrong. Cheaters tend to use their phones more frequently than before and to guard them as if their lives depend on it.

Don’t wear anything to bed – Facebook user advises married men

A Nigerian lady identified as Uche Favour on Facebook has used the platform to advice married men on what to do when they find out that their wife is cheating. According to her, such men need to change their approach towards their wife and try doing everything possible to gain their attention.

To fulfill your purpose, marry your husband/wife not the one your prophet recommends – Foluke Salako

Nollywood actress Foluke Salako has shared her thoughts on choosing a marriage partner. According to her, it is always good to marry one’s husband or wife an not the one recommended by a pastor.

See The List Of Attributes This Man Says His Wife Must Possess

Just like character is the most important quality of a good guy, the woman you’re going to marry should have good character as well…When you find your heartthrob, she is more valuable than anything!. An unidentified lady reportedly got shocked after the man of her dreams sent her the list of attributes his wife must possess. A Twitter user @boboxl shared the list on the platform and wrote:

Nigerian Couple Set To Wed After 11 Years Of Relationship (Photos)

The 11-year-old relationship between Nigerian couple, Sylvia Nwahiri and Ifeanyi Anyanwu will be consummated to marriage this December in Mbaise, Imo State. The bride-to-be, Sylvia Nwahir, couldn’t hold back her excitement as she shared their pre-wedding photos on social media which came with caption...

You should have s3x with your wife at least 16 times a week - Expert

Letter to Husbands - " you should have sex with your wife at least 16 times a week" (Case study ; Nigerian men)

Society has put so much pressure on women these days. If a man cheats it's his wife's fault for not "keeping him or satisfying him", this notion is absolutely wrong.

There are a million things a woman is asked to do just to keep her man, but there is no list of things a man is asked to do to keep his woman. We Men make it seem like women want to get married more than us and we're doing them a favor by committing or being in a relationship.

5 Ways To Be Romanic In This Digital Age

Gone are the days of waiting for weeks for a love letter to arrive from your lover who is either near or far away. You do not need to go through this stress, you can simply call or send an instant message via WhatsApp or BBM. However, as a result of this, there is little or no romance many relationships. You do not need to allow the digital age kill romance in your love life. Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency shares ways you can keep the love and romance fire burning.

Words and pictures

To express your feelings for someone, you can simply use romantic words and picture messages. There is nothing new under the sun. Google some nice and romantic words as well as picture messages you can send to your bae. This seems simplistic but many people scarcely do despite its far-reaching effect.

Here Are 8 Things Happy Couples Do Before Bed

Looking for an easy way to make your relationship successful, here are some eight important points to note. 

We live in a busy world and between work, kids, bills and other daily stressors, many couples struggle to find time to connect.

That’s why it’s so important for couples to make the most of whatever alone time they have together - whether it’s an hour or just 10 minutes. We asked relationship experts to tell us what the happiest couples do before bed to keep their bond strong. See what they had to say below. 

1. They exchange “I love yous.”

“Despite all the hassles of the day, the quirks and annoyances you experience from one another and ominous feelings about the day ahead, make the effort to let your partner know they are loved. And rather than just heave it out with your last sigh of the night, say it like you really feel it.” - Ryan Howes, psychologist

2. They go to bed at the same time if possible.

“Too many couples go to bed at different times, leading disconnected lives in the evening after already having spent all day apart. Happy couples, however, are intentional about coming back together at bedtime and reconnecting, if only for the few minutes of brushing teeth and getting under the covers. Going to bed together builds connection and provides opportunity for more intimate connecting.” - Kurt Smith, therapist who specializes in counseling for men

8 Real Reasons Women Pick Fights With Men They Love

You don’t always have to fight for something. You can fight about anything.

Every woman has started that fight whereby the middle of it, she can’t turn back — no matter how stupid and ridiculous she knows it to be.

That fight about how you’re not attracted to her anymore because you said you were tired or how you should have known what she was thinking — if you loved her you would have known.

Yes, we know how delusional we sound. We get it. But we can’t help how we feel. We’re emotional and tied to our gut.

We pick fights because we’re picking up on something. It might not be about your messy room or your innocent comment about how tired you are, but it’s there, tied to something bigger.

7 Major Causes Of Break-Ups Of Today’s Relationships

Life does not just consist of roses; it has thorns too. And those thorns can be piercing and painful. Likewise, many beautiful relationships have broken up. The partners probably never saw it coming. Their friends may not have ever expected it. But it happened anyway.

Here is a list of the major causes of break-ups in our world today...

1. Cheating: This probably deserves the front position on the list. Most relationships are caused by the infidelity of one of the partners. The infidelity may be sexual or emotional cheating. In emotional cheating, your partner gets so tied up emotionally with the opposite sex till it seems they should be in a relationship with that person and not you. It can manifest through frequent calls, chats, outings, etc. Ultimately, when the partner finds out, trust is torn to shreds. There may be begging, and forgiveness but the trust is gone. Most times, it is only a matter of time before someone calls it quit. 

10 Women Christian Men Should Never Marry

Often in the quest towards marriage and finding “the one,” something happens. It’s easy to overlook things that may not seem that big of a deal while dating, but these things could be destructive patterns once married. But love doesn’t have to be blind. There’s no reason to settle for unhealthy or harmful relationships, simply to pursue being married.

We all have sin issues that we deal with on a daily basis. We’ve all made mistakes that we often wish we could do-over. We all need the grace and freedom that only Christ Himself can offer. But our marriages are healthier when we recognize red flags in our dating relationships, instead of choosing not to see problems at all.

God cares about the decisions we make. He cares about who we marry. And we can trust He will give guidance, and help us see some red flags to be aware of along the way.

10 Women Christian Men Should Never Marry:

9 Things YOU MUST NOT DO When You Are Tired Of Your Marriage

When Marriage hurts, there is a high possibility of making mistakes that will make matters worse.

Emotion is high, depression is setting in, anger is deep and worry is overwhelming, that is the period when people make more terrible mistakes, saying terrible things, do negative things, hurt themselves and their loved ones.

Here are things you must never do, when your marriage is really hurting:

(1) NEVER SEPARATE. Some couples erroneously think that it is better to “give a gap” when there is crisis’’ to make tempers cool down. But the truth is, the longer you separate from your spouse the more difficult it becomes to come together again. It even makes it easier for the devil to use you against each other. Avoid separation as much as possible. Stay in that marriage to make it work. {Malachi 2:14-16}

3 Types Of Hopeless Relationship

Many people, both women, and men dream of meeting their soul mates – a person who will be close to one’s liking and spirit. Therefore, thousands of new users are registered daily on the dating sites, and hundreds of single people go on a first date. However, not every meeting is successful. Many people, unfortunately, instead of having a happy romantic relationship, get a "suitcase without a handle” – a hopeless relationship that will never grow into something bigger than a meaningless affair, increasing frustration.

Men cheat with ugly women because beautiful women aren’t romantic in bed- Marriage Counsellor

Self-acclaimed relationship and marriage counsellor, Reverend George Lutterodt claims good-looking ladies are not erotic in bed.Speaking on Kasapa FM,he said “Any man who marries a beautiful woman suffers in bed. Mostly women who are beautiful aren’t romantic in bed, that is why any man who cheats on his wife, do so with ugly women,” When asked by the host if his wife is also romantic in bed, Lutterodt said, “Call her yourself and ask. Perhaps no man can praise himself after every sexual bouts, it is the lady who can tell how a man performs in bed.

6 Places You Should Never Toast a Nigerian Girl

Some Nigerian guys tend to toast (woo) any girl they are interested in without even considering the time and place. Not minding the location and with so much confidence, they approach you and begin to run their mouths, spitting lines they have specially practiced for wooing girls. Oftentimes, the thinking of certain guys is that they want to take the opportunity to toast the girl as they may not meet her again. That’s true. However, you should be conscious of the places you intend to hit on a woman.

Before you marry her, make sure she can cook – Reno Omokri

Reno Omokri has once again directed his 'Nuggets' to the relationship between cooking and a successful marriage. According to Omokri, eating outside is romantic, but expensive, therefore a man must ensure she can cook before marriage or he will go poor by always eating out. He also hinted that ladies should not marry a man they have never seen provoked. His advice, "Know how he acts during anger before saying I do."

See The Seven Best Times To Kiss Your Lover (Must Read)

Holly Riordan of All Women Stalk lists a few of these awesome times to kiss your partner: 

 1. When saying goodbye: When you know you won’t see your #partner for a while, leaving them is torturous. Your last few minutes together will involve a lot of hugging and kissing. You never want the moment to end, so you aim to make it as special as possible. It’s one of the best times to be kissed, because it’s what has to hold you over for the next few weeks, and you have to make it memorable.