For the Nigerian men: How to find good women

Knowing where to meet women is perhaps the most basic piece of information you have to learn.

If you are looking to meet more women, you may have to be more social and attend more parties and get-togethers. Did you actually think that you’d meet women out of the blue if you spend most of your time at work and at home? Don’t be silly.

So start attending parties whenever you’re invited. Parties, especially weddings are where to go to meet women who are actually ready for some social interactions. Weddings are often the best way to meet good single women, who are probably thinking of settling down. So don’t throw away those wedding invites.

At the party, don’t just stand in a corner and watch people. Walk around, smile, and talk to people. Gear up on your small talk: if you haven’t mastered that yet, start by asking how others know the host or the bride/groom. Try to find out whether you two have some mutual acquaintances. Don’t forget to introduce yourself, or better yet, have a mutual acquaintance introduce you.

If you want to know where to meet nice women, the answer is somewhat obvious. You go to those places where nice things are going on. Essentially, that means going to church or other religious gathering where you don’t have to worry about meeting the wrong kind.

You should know that meeting women isn’t just about going to where they are. In many cases it’s not just where you go, but who you know. Most women are far more agreeable to a date with you if you two were introduced to each other by a mutual acquaintance—or better yet, by someone whom they know well and trust. That person’s introduction is a virtual endorsement of your character. So when that person introduces you to her, she’s being told in effect that you’re a nice guy.

But by all means, go to places where women are. Doing so won’t hurt your chances, and would probably increase them considerably. By knowing where to meet women you may like and actually going to these places, at least you’re taking the first step in your journey towards a new romantic relationship.