Some men are very overt in their approach and you will know when they mean business. These are the shy guys who are extremely conscious of their feelings for you but they won’t let it out directly. If you are interested in a shy guy and you want to know if he is as interested in you as you are in him, then you will have to pay close attention to certain signs that indicates that he truly likes you, and wants to go out with you but don’t know how to go about for the fact that he is the shy type.
Remember, the world has evolved so much that traditional practices no longer bring the best results, so don’t sit there dying silently for a guy and waiting for him to make the first move when he may be the shy type that finds it difficult to walk up to a girl, either as a result of upbringing, moral standard, past negative experiences he had when he tried approaching a girl or for so many other reasons. You can initiate the move to inspire him, but before you make a move, you need to be at least 70% sure that he likes you or he’s into you…and how do you know this?
In this article, we are going to answer certain questions like:
What are the signs that show that a shy guy likes you?
Before I answer that question, I would like you to take note of this: “all shy guys are faced with one dilemma” – ‘to let know or to not let know’ when it comes to their love interest. And most often, shy guys never let you know directly that they like you and want to go out with you unless you indicate your interest in them first. And even at times, they still don’t catch on to your hints very quickly so you have to be bold and direct.
Now, below are some proven signs that a shy guy likes you:
1. He Avoids Direct Eye Contact with you:
If a guy is in love with you, he’s gonna talk through his eyes but not directly. Shy guys stare or steal glances at you if they like you, that’s a fact, but they are quick to avoid your eye contact if you gaze in their direction.
Don’t take this as timidity or dislike, it is not, it’s just that they just can’t maintain eye contact for more than a second with a girl they admire so much and they will either look down or sideways. He would stare almost unconsciously at you but when he sees you looking at him he will become
very self conscious and avert his glace.
He might give you a polite smile if you catch him staring but he will look away while doing so.
2. He Blushes When You Talk to Him:
You can see a pink flush on his cheeks if you flirt with him or get close to him or even if you just have a casual conversation. Shy guys are overly sensitive and self conscious, he’s been thinking or even obsessing about you in his mind and when you talk to him his natural shyness causes him to blush.
3. He Becomes Self Conscious When You are Around:
If you see him touching up his hair, scratching his face, twirling his fingers or getting fidgety whenever you are around, it would indicate that he has become very self conscious in your presence, please help him out because this is definite sign of a shy guy genuinely falling for you.
4. He Stammers While Talking to You:
How to know if a shy guy likes you? Just talk to him and you will know. Just start a casual conversation and see how he reacts to you. If he stammers back a reply, while looking all around the room but at you, then you know he has an intense crush going.
5. He Is Afraid To Ask For Your Number, Instead He Gets It from Your Friends and Calls You Up:
It is quite natural for a shy guy to never ask your number directly. If he’s going crazy in his love for you, he might muster the courage to get your number from your friends, or from some other source, and call you up on some pretext (usually a pretty lame one). He might even chat with you on a messaging utility like facebook, twitter, msn or yahoo because it’s easier for him than a direct interaction initially.
6. He is Very Sensitive to Your Touch:
If you happen to touch him playfully, or just casually, he might respond as if he got an electric shock. You will see his face go all pink, he might suddenly move away or just get overly self-conscious. It just shows your touch means a lot to him.
7. He Offers to Help You With Your Work:
This might be one way he will try to approach you. He will offer to help you with your work or offer to drop you home. This is a big step for a shy guy and you should take it as a definite sign that he likes you and is in love with you. So these are the common signs when a shy guy likes you. It might be a little frustrating to see that he is not being direct in expressing his interest but this is how shy guys act around a girl they like.
SOMETHING A SHY GUY WILL NEVER DO!
A shy guy will never admit he has a crush on you. A shy guy may be in love with you, but if you ask him:
“Do you like me?”
He may answer with something ridiculous, like:
“No not really, you’re like a sister to me” (ope can't stop laughing ooooo, may be I'm a shy guy too)
A shy guy will say anything to hide his true feelings. If you encounter something like that ridiculous example, fire back
Remember, the world has evolved so much that traditional practices no longer bring the best results, so don’t sit there dying silently for a guy and waiting for him to make the first move when he may be the shy type that finds it difficult to walk up to a girl, either as a result of upbringing, moral standard, past negative experiences he had when he tried approaching a girl or for so many other reasons. You can initiate the move to inspire him, but before you make a move, you need to be at least 70% sure that he likes you or he’s into you…and how do you know this?
In this article, we are going to answer certain questions like:
What are the signs that show that a shy guy likes you?
Before I answer that question, I would like you to take note of this: “all shy guys are faced with one dilemma” – ‘to let know or to not let know’ when it comes to their love interest. And most often, shy guys never let you know directly that they like you and want to go out with you unless you indicate your interest in them first. And even at times, they still don’t catch on to your hints very quickly so you have to be bold and direct.
Now, below are some proven signs that a shy guy likes you:
1. He Avoids Direct Eye Contact with you:
If a guy is in love with you, he’s gonna talk through his eyes but not directly. Shy guys stare or steal glances at you if they like you, that’s a fact, but they are quick to avoid your eye contact if you gaze in their direction.
Don’t take this as timidity or dislike, it is not, it’s just that they just can’t maintain eye contact for more than a second with a girl they admire so much and they will either look down or sideways. He would stare almost unconsciously at you but when he sees you looking at him he will become
very self conscious and avert his glace.
He might give you a polite smile if you catch him staring but he will look away while doing so.
2. He Blushes When You Talk to Him:You can see a pink flush on his cheeks if you flirt with him or get close to him or even if you just have a casual conversation. Shy guys are overly sensitive and self conscious, he’s been thinking or even obsessing about you in his mind and when you talk to him his natural shyness causes him to blush.
3. He Becomes Self Conscious When You are Around:
If you see him touching up his hair, scratching his face, twirling his fingers or getting fidgety whenever you are around, it would indicate that he has become very self conscious in your presence, please help him out because this is definite sign of a shy guy genuinely falling for you.
4. He Stammers While Talking to You:
How to know if a shy guy likes you? Just talk to him and you will know. Just start a casual conversation and see how he reacts to you. If he stammers back a reply, while looking all around the room but at you, then you know he has an intense crush going.
5. He Is Afraid To Ask For Your Number, Instead He Gets It from Your Friends and Calls You Up:
It is quite natural for a shy guy to never ask your number directly. If he’s going crazy in his love for you, he might muster the courage to get your number from your friends, or from some other source, and call you up on some pretext (usually a pretty lame one). He might even chat with you on a messaging utility like facebook, twitter, msn or yahoo because it’s easier for him than a direct interaction initially.
6. He is Very Sensitive to Your Touch:
If you happen to touch him playfully, or just casually, he might respond as if he got an electric shock. You will see his face go all pink, he might suddenly move away or just get overly self-conscious. It just shows your touch means a lot to him.
7. He Offers to Help You With Your Work:
This might be one way he will try to approach you. He will offer to help you with your work or offer to drop you home. This is a big step for a shy guy and you should take it as a definite sign that he likes you and is in love with you. So these are the common signs when a shy guy likes you. It might be a little frustrating to see that he is not being direct in expressing his interest but this is how shy guys act around a girl they like.
SOMETHING A SHY GUY WILL NEVER DO!
A shy guy will never admit he has a crush on you. A shy guy may be in love with you, but if you ask him:
“Do you like me?”
He may answer with something ridiculous, like:
“No not really, you’re like a sister to me” (ope can't stop laughing ooooo, may be I'm a shy guy too)
A shy guy will say anything to hide his true feelings. If you encounter something like that ridiculous example, fire back
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