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Romeo is banned from an after-school club run by his local church after
being accused of 'confusing' other children by dressing in girls'
clothes
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Little Romeo Clarke, five, from Rugby, pictured sitting among some of the 100 dresses he owns
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A five-year-old boy has been banned from his church playgroup because he likes to wear princess dresses.
Romeo
Clarke, from Rugby, Warwickshire, who has three older sisters, has
amassed a collection of 100 dresses and eight pairs of high-heeled
children's shoes.
The youngster likes to wear heels and something in his favourite colour, pink - such as socks or a hair clip, every single day. Romeo also likes having his hair straightened, his nails painted and playing with Barbie dolls.
He says he is unfazed by what people think.
But the organisers of Romeo's after-school club, run by his his local church, believe his princess dresses were 'confusing' the other children and have asked him not to return. They say he can only rejoin the group if he wears gender-appropriate clothing.
His furious mother Georgina Clarke, 36, has lodged a complaint with the church, claiming they are discriminating against her son.
The
stay-at-home single mother said: 'I was so cross when I was told he
couldn’t wear dresses I was speechless - all I could ask was, why?
'Wearing the dress is his choice and if wearing it makes him happy, it's fine with me.
'This
is not a case of my son being trapped in a girl’s body - he’s a normal
boy who, because he has three big sisters, likes wearing dresses. What
is wrong with that?'
Romeo
started St Marie’s Catholic Primary School in Rugby, Warwickshire, last
September and mother Georgina also enrolled him in the Buzz Children’s
Club at their local church.
The
club, which is run by the Rugby Christian Fellowship Church, charges £1
per week for children aged 5-7 to to attend every Wednesday from
4.30-6pm.
Three
weeks ago Georgina, who is also mother to Kayla, 19, Amber 18, and
Keisha, 12, was approached by the organisers of the group, who informed
her Romeo was no longer welcome.
She
said: 'I was shocked and surprised, the leader Bex Venables, who is a
really lovely lady, said she didn't think it was appropriate he wore the
dress.
'She said it was upsetting and confusing the other children.
'She
took to me to one side after I dropped him off and said "Romeo will be
welcome back when he wears clothes which match his gender."
Three weeks ago Romeo's mother Georgina was
approached by the organisers of her son's church playgroup, who told her
he was no longer welcome there
Georgina with son Romeo, wearing a dress outside the Church (left) and dressed in boys' clothes (right)
'I
spoke to three other parents who take their children to the group. I
asked them if Romeo wearing the dress concerned them or their children
in any way and they all said no.
'What does the gender matter? Romeo keeps asking when he is going back and I don't know what to say.
'He is going to be so upset as he loves going to play there.'
Georgina says Romeo has had an eye for 'glitzy things', since he was two years old.
'He
has always been surrounded by girls I suppose, with his three older
sisters. If he asks for it, they straighten his hair and paint his nails
when they are doing theirs.
'I
think he is quite theatrical so he might end up on the stage I guess.
He loves performing. I try to encourage his boy side too and he goes
rock climbing once a week and swimming but I think he wants to do ballet
too'
'Romeo has
about 100 dresses and high heels, too. He has to wear
something pink everyday, even something like a hair clip.
'He pretty much comes home from school, throws off his uniform, puts on a dress and starts singing.
'His favourite film is Frozen and loves acting out the role of the princesses with his sisters.
'He
wears his dress to the supermarket and sings down the aisles, he isn't
bothered what people think. I don't think he should be, I’m proud he is
so free and comfortable with himself.
'He took a Barbie to school the other week, I did warn him the other children might say something but he didn't care.
'He
is friends with boys and girls, but mostly girls. I think he is quite
theatrical so he might end up on the stage, I guess. He loves
performing.
'I try to encourage his boy side too and he goes rock climbing once a week and swimming but I think he wants to do ballet too.
Romeo pictured with his mother Georgina Clarke at their home in Rugby
'The whole family is very supportive. He won't be going back to that club, he will just have to go somewhere else.'
Romeo's
father Winston Morris, 42, a builder, who has separated from the
family, added: 'I don't care if he wears the dress. He can be whatever
he wants to be.
'I am not happy with the way the whole thing has been dealt with.
'We think he has been singled out and he definitely won't be going back.'
Mrs Venables, the Minister in Training at the Rugby Christian Fellowship yesterday defended the decision.
She said:
'Georgina's son is still allowed to attend Buzz Children's Club but has
been asked to wear clothing of the gender stated on his registration
form, which states male.
'This request is no different from what is asked by his school, where he wears a boys' uniform.
'Buzz
Children's Club seeks to follow our usual safeguarding guidelines and
we did so in this case in order to avoid any confusion or possible
conflict or teasing from other children.'
His mother says Romeo (pictured here at the age of three) has had an eye for 'glitzy things' since he was two years old
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