1. Business Conferences – While the first thing that
comes to mind is that men are only looking for an extra-marital fling on
business trips, there are still quite a few single, ambitious, smart
men at seminars and business conferences. Since the atmosphere is
business, it’s very easy to approach and ask a man who he is and what he
does. Meet greet and start up a conversation… Just be sure to check his
left hand for the presence of a ring or tan lines.
2. Bars – We’re not talking about the fancy, trendy
bars like the 40/40 Club where everyone is fabulous and the women are
even more fabulous in their stilettos and party dresses. The local
bar/tavern in a nice neighborhood attracts mostly people with adams
apples. Sports bars, in particular, are best. Bars boast of games, pool
tables and even slot machines depending what town you are in. The big
wide, flat screens, usually turned to sports coverage, offers a variety
of conversation-starter topics.
3. SPORTS GAMES
– Don’t go trying to go be a groupie at the local NBA game.. Instead
use sites like Meetup.com to find adult sports leagues in your area! A
lot of couples have met like this.
4. VOLUNTEER GROUPS – If a man is volunteering his
time to help out the elderly or the homeless chances are he has a really
good heart.. A surprising number of newlyweds met this way.
5. THE WORKPLACE
– You hear people say don’t mess around where you work at, but what
better place to get to know someone than the workplace.. You can tell
his work ethic, you know his pay grade, and you can even watch him from a
distance before you make yourself noticed.
6. CHURCH
– The house of the lord is a excellent place to find a good man because
any good man first has his foundation set in God.. However, every man
at your church is not a good man. You have to get to know the man of God
the same way you would a man you met at another place.. After, all, Men
of God are still humans that make mistakes
7. Right in Your Own Backyard – Your neighborhood is filled with good men. Walk your dog around the block or go jogging. You might run into Mr. Right.
8. Family - Ask your family members to introduce you to eligible men they know.. This might be old fashioned, but it works.
9. SCHOOL CAMPUS
– We are all adults here so I’m definitely not talking about your local
middle school or high school. I’m talking college campus’ where many
adults roam from building to building and class to class.. A very high
number of successful couples was college sweethearts.
10. Every year, NBA All-Star Weekend
comes to a town, and all people think about are the groupies… The
groupies are on to something… They realize something that the
respectable women don’t know… There will be thousands of eligible, good
men flocking to this major sporting event… A very high number of couples
has met this way.
11. Festivals – The Essence Music Festival, known as the “party with a purpose”
is one of a kind. With live music from top entertainers and very
popular speakers, the festival draws over 200,000 men every year… Get
yourself down to New Orleans this year.
12. Hardware Store
– A hardware store or home-improvement store like Lowe’s is a great
place to meet men, plus it’s easy to strike up a conversation with a man
about any given product. Chances are he knows more than you when it
comes to the tools and will be more than happy to answer your questions.
13. Childhood Friends
– Did you ever think that Little William, who you used to beat up would
grow up to be such a handsome man? Childhood friends can make very good
mates.
14. The Grocery Store – Everyone has to
eat. Single men have to do their own grocery shopping. So don’t go to
the store with scarf on your head thinking no one will see you… A good
man may bump into you in the health-food aisle.
15. The Gas Station
– Everyone does have to stop and get gas eventually. Even if you don’t
need gas go in there and grab a snack or a bottle of water… Mr. Right
might see you walking out.
16. Throw a House Party
– If you’re single throw a party at your home. Tell everyone to invite
all of their male acquaintances and women too. Pull out the barbecue
grill, serve some hor’dourves, have a wine tasting or simply a nice
dinner party… Since you’re the hostess you will definitely need to
introduce yourself to the handsome man across the room… Even better make
him a drink.
17. The Internet – Social Media
sites like Facebook and Instagram are good for more than just updating
your status and looking at other people’s photos. Plenty of single
people are on these sites just waiting to meet someone they can fall in
love with.
18. Don’t forget about the coffee house
– Lots of men love Starbucks just as much as women… Men sit there
drinking coffee and reading newspapers… Walk in there and get yourself a
Caramel Frappuccino and an excellent man to go. Don’t take me literally
and move too fast, I did not say coffee and a one-night stand… Remember
we are talking about catching a good man.
19. Steakhouses
– Single men often times crave a good gourmet steak and are often seen
dining by themselves at steakhouses. Instead of getting a table most of
them have a drink and eat their steak at the bar… You, on the other
hand, should definitely not sit at the bar… Instead sit at a table next
to the bar… Also this may feel a bit weird, but do not take your
girlfriend with you, as men are more comfortable approaching a woman
when she is alone.
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